| Procrastination is a habit, not a fatal
flaw. It takes persistence to change, but you can do it. Here's how:
CLARIFY
YOUR PERSONAL GOALS
Articulate and write down your personal
goals. Post them on your door, mirror, notebook -- so you'll see them frequently.
Be sure the task you think you "should" do
is one that is really important to you, that leads to your goal. If your
actions aren't in line with your intentions, perhaps you should change
your intentions: "I said I'd study history now, but it's more important
to rest after my test today. I'll plan to do it tomorrow morning."
MANAGE
YOUR TIME EFFECTIVELY
If you don't know how to manage
your time, learn. Consult a counselor, attend a time management workshop,
or work with an independent study program.
Break your goal up into little parts. Write
out and list the steps you must take to accomplish your goal.
Write out a plan for yourself. Make a schedule.
Establish a regular time each day to work
toward your goal. Get out of a disorganized lifestyle and make working
toward your goal part of your routine.
Organize your environment, complete with
the tools you'll need, so it's conducive to working. Or...move yourself
to an environment which is conducive to working.
If you aren't sure how to reach your goal,
learn. For example, if you aren't clear about an assignment, plan to consult
with your teacher. Build this appointment into your schedule.
Start early. Build procrastination time into
your schedule. Call it "creative leisure."
Start small and easily. Build gradually.
CHANGE
YOUR ATTITUDE
Do you feel that the world is too
difficult? That you are inadequate to meet its challenges? That you cannot
function without a lot of approval? Are you frustrated with the limitations
of others? Expect nothing less of yourself and others than perfection?
Convinced that disaster hinges on your actions? ... These are immobilizing,
self-defeating, avoidance-producing attitudes and beliefs. Recognize them
as such, and use them only to the extent that they are helpful. Don't indulge
them and don't believe them! Replace them with self-enhancing beliefs and
attitudes.
Remind yourself of the emotional and physical
consequences of procrastination. Then remind yourself of the consequences
of not procrastinating.
Concentrate on little bits and pieces of
your project; don't think "all or nothing."
For a day, pretend that you are a well-organized
non-procrastinator. Imagine how you would think and behave. Then behave
and think that way ... even if only for a few minutes at a time.
Value your mistakes; don't judge them. What
is curious, useful, interesting about them? What is worthwhile? Anything
worth doing is worth doing badly.
Know your escapes and avoidances: self-indulgence?
socializing? reading? doing it yourself? over-doing it? running away? day
dreaming? Call yourself on them.
Rage, complain, and vent: don't hold it in
... or, hold it in, if that works for you!
CHANGE
YOUR BEHAVIOR
Use your friends. Set up a contract
with someone to get something done. Make an appointment to study with a
friend who has no difficulty studying. Make an appointment to consult with
someone who can help you with your task. Arrange to meet with a friend
for support, someone who'll listen and who'll share your highs and lows.
Make something you normally do and enjoy
contingent upon doing the avoided task: "I'll work on my term paper in
the library half an hour before going to play racquetball."
Keep your tasks visible in front of you:
set up reminders, signs, slogans, notes, lists.
Use your impulsiveness. When you get going,
keep going. Do something when you think of it -- don't think about it.
Do instant, tiny things.
Do something daily. Agree to start a project
and stay with it for 5 minutes. Consider another 5 minutes at the end of
the first.
Establish priorities among tasks according
to the degree of unpleasantness. Start with the most unpleasant task and
work down until you get to the easier ones.
If you've got something hard to do, rehearse
it in your imagination or with someone. Work the bugs out; don't terrify
yourself.
Be sure the rest of your life is in good
shape ... so your awful task is less awful within the context of a good
general quality of life.
ACCEPT
YOURSELF
Give yourself time to change.
Expect and forgive backsliding.
Give yourself credit for anything you do.
Forgive yourself a lot.
|